I Love You Dad

My dear, Allaah. How wonderful You are. You have blessed us immensely, yet we fail to thank You for these blessings. Despite this fact, You continue to bless us every day, in so many ways.

O Allaah, You are so Lovely. You guided us to the straight path and informed us of the deeds we should perform in order to enter Jannah. However, we are so imprudent that we neglect those deeds which will take us to Jannah.

O Allaah, How is my daddy? He is well isn’t he? You have admitted my daddy into Your Heavens, haven’t you?

O Allaah! My daddy abandoned everything and sacrificed his life to glorify Your Deen. He did not give priority to anything in this World; neither wealth, nor property; as a matter of fact, he forgot about everything else and just remembered that Islam should be superior on this Earth.

O Allaah! It is for this reason that he used to tell us stories about Umar ibn Khatab, about Tariq Bin Ziyyad and of Khalid Bin Waleed.

Eventually, he too, like them, raised arms against the enemy and continued to fight until the last drop of his blood had spilt from his body.

O Allaah! Give my Salaam to my daddy and tell him that his little boy is absolutely fine. O Allah, please also tell him that his little boy will try the first fast of his life, during this Ramadhan.

Oh Allaah ! Tell my daddy not to be worried in our absence; the life of this world is very short. Mummy says that the life of this world will end suddenly, and then no mummy, daddy, brother, sister, son, or daughter will be of any use.

However on that day the Shaheed will be able to intercede for seventy members of his family and lead them into Jannah (Paradise).

O Allaah! Tell my daddy that whenever mummy talks to me about him, she is very sorrowful, but she gives me a lot of courage. She weeps silently, but has never cried impatiently and uncontrollably.

O Allaah! Tell my daddy not to get distressed. My mummy is very courageous. She earns a living by sewing clothes and washing dishes for people in our neighbourhood. She sends me to school during the day and to the mosque in the evening. At the mosque I learn the Qur’an from the Qari. My mummy has never complained to anyone. Instead, at night-time after finishing her work, she tells me stories of bravery and courage, as my daddy used to.

O Allaah! Eid is near. The other children are going to buy new shoes with their daddys’. They have had new garments tailor-made and have bought Eid gifts to exchange with friends. Whenever I ask mummy to buy me some new shoes and clothes she does not answer me. She just remains silent and goes into the other room. Now I have stopped asking her. Maybe she has a good reason.

But Allaah! Tell my daddy not to worry. Even if I do not get new clothes, even if I do not get new shoes; so what? Eid is but a day, it will pass. Instead of passing the day playing, as children do and instead of going to the markets, I will spend it in the company of my mummy. Anyway, I am no longer a child. I have matured. My courage and resolve are very strong.

O Allaah! Tell my daddy that we are very happy. We do not lack anything. Just tell daddy to remember us; and Allaah, tell my daddy not to worry, as I no longer cry.
There is no-one who will lovingly tell me off, there is no-one to play fight with me, there is no-one who will pretend to be upset with me, but mummy tries to ensure that I am always happy.

When I hear the sorrow of my friends in here (Afghanistan) and from the childrens of Iraq, Palestine, Bosnia, Albania and Checnya that their homes have been destroyed and their parents murdered by the oppressors, I forget about my own sorrows. I see their pictures in the newspapers; they sit despondently; some sit on the rubble of their houses, some sit forlorn on the dead bodies of their relatives. And that is why Allaah, I would like you to tell my daddy not to worry, because I am not sad.

wrote by a lil mujahid, Abdul Hameed Hamza.
(Translated to English by Umm Rawhiyah)

Love Letter

A Mujahid´s Letter to his Wife.
DEDICATED TO MY PRINCESS:

I Never Left You...

You never complained when you knew we would have nothing. You were contempt on having what little you needed.

Where others would have left or moaned you never once let out a sigh. You understood what was written was what we would eat.

I never once complained about what was put in front of me as I knew it was your hands that brought it to me.

When I had nothing I had you. We smiled as we saw the destruction around us knowing that these people were not true.

You never felt sympathy towards the enemy. You put your trust in your Rubb and in turn you followed me. Never did I have to wonder about you as my secrets my honour and my Deen were safe with you.

It's the little things that make the person and you would have easily have kept me going for a lifetime.

I loved your jealousy. I loved to tease you with the thought of others just so I could know how dear I was to you.

The way you would look at me with fire in your eyes showed me that I was the only one for you. You stole my heart and hide it away. You know your place it's by my side.

What chance did shaytan have when you would ensure that fajr was the easiest of the salahs. I loved that you would forsake me in an instant to fast a voluntary fast. I loved that the Haq was dearer to you then my life and those of our jewels.

Watching you makes me laugh as I wonder if my heart will ever want another as I watch you feed my child, as you lift him out of the bath, as you wipe his little nose and the face he pulls. You will never find a diamond in the hands of the poor in the same way our diamond deserves to be carried in your hands. We could have it all my love but who sells Paradise for an hour of passing pleasure? Not us.

I chose you O.. My princess as I know our fruits are safe with you.

Never would I have to worry about where the loyalties of my babies are. They will love what we love they will love Allah Most Glorified Most High, they will Love the Prophets and the best of Companions, They will love those who they have never met but will long to meet. They will love those better then us. They will live to honour one statement. Others will fall under the weight of La ilahailallaah but not them. Their hearts will beat it, their words testify to it and their hands carry it.

I told you once that only 2 things will have me. You and death. My life was with you but now I must marry again. I must marry what was promised to me the moment I was born. I must marry my fate and in turn I must marry death. After death will come reckoning and if I stand with the best of creation I will with the permission of Allah Lord of the Heavens and the Earth I will beg for you. None was worthy to stand next to me in this life so why is it I should desire another in the next?

a Letter to My Son

In the Name of ALLAH, Most Gracious Most Merciful.


My dear Son,
Moments of your beginning are moments of my ending, of which I wish to
share some of my thoughtful words as a kind of good luck charm to
brighten your lovely, colorful days, so as it gives you a long life
happiness.

It fills my delighted heart to know that you have been paying much
attention to the words I say and that thrills me to tell you more
stories of how a precious life can be which I have collected so far
during the journey of my life.

As precious as this moment that I don't intend to pass it by
meaninglessly, I'd like to show you the meaning of a friend and
friendship.

My precious son, no bird can fly miles away alone without any support
from other birds that help to reduce the load of flying to a distant
point of destination.

You see, they fly together in a triangle formation that automatically
gives different flying-loads to each member of the formation where
they take loads in turns. as it is with the case, no man can get what
he calls "great achievements" unless he did it with the help of
others, a helping hand of his very best fellowmen around him tightly
knit in one simple term, friendship. His friends push him on ward to
get to the goal .

A friend is someone with whom you dare to be yourself, someone with
whom you dare to show yourself and say: " This is me ! "

Just take my word, my dear son, a friend is an important part of your
life. It is said that a friend can be a pick me up when ever you fall
down and seem to have lost your way, a single word to accompany your
loneliness, a loving hand to guide, a sympathetic patient smile when
you grieve, a joyful song when happiness and a constant reminder with
love as the theme. Others may even find that a friend is a hand that
stop them from falling. It stops you from breaking to pieces. He is
there listening to whatever you say, attentive and caring in times of
hardship.

He is definitely a place you come to and share your feelings with
mutual trust. It is my other delight to see you have many friends, my
child. But what comes most to my gratefulness is your appealing way in
making yourself a friend of others.You know, my dear son, I was moved
by your inner sense of friendship to other children in the
neighborhood. You filled your childhood with a sense of sharing,
caring and respect among those little friends of yours, not to
mention, to the other creatures that we kept as pets. Those were the
moments that captured me in an eternal place of happiness watching you
enjoy peaceful and pleasant moments with them.

But remember this, my son, the truest friend of whom you share your
life with is the one that brings goodness and happiness. The goodness
he shows is a clear appreciation of Truth, and the true happiness he
brings should possess a pleasant excitement towards the Truth itself.
He is the one who wishes you to gain the salvation in this World and
the Hereafter later on.
So, be the very true best friend to others, my son, if possible to everybody !

I have seen wisdom shining out of your eyes even when you were still a
young boy. I'm sure it won't be difficult for you to understand my
words.

As of friendship, my dear son, I've come to think and tell you that it
is an invaluable diamond. Its priceless shine cannot be found in any
other thing. You cannot trade it, my son, or even borrow it !
For what's in it is a will to be in mutual respect, love, caring and
giving, and a recognition of other's existence.

Allow me to explain in more details.
In one hadith of Qudsi, Allah announced that He is the only truest
Companion to all beings who always call and recite His Names
faithfully. It means you remember Him continuously wherever you are,
in whatever your condition is. You water your thirst with His Glorious
Names. You fulfill your obligated and good deeds in His Names. You
avoid doing something because He forbids, and you truly realize that
He is always watching you, your every step and move.
If you do all of these unconditionally, one day you will feel, in your
heart, a magnificent growing love to Him. This glorious feeling will
take its form as a strong and powerful will to tighten yourself
eternally to Him.

If you be sincere with your perseverance, a day will come when you
know that He repays your love, the day when miracles are shown as the
sign of His love. At that moment, the moment when your love receives
His best response, you will realize that you have come to a condition
that whatever you do will be only "for Allah" (le-Llah) the condition
that only you can appreciate. Your experience will absolutely be an
untold story ! You are in a condition where you need nothing to worry
and to grieve about, the condition when you know Allah has raised you
to the level of such gracefulness.

Reach that condition, my son !That is the true happiness !
So, always be in pray, my son, keep praying to Allah,
then strengthen your patience. Indeed, you
will realize later that all of us are so depended on Him.

It is still fresh in my memory your loud cry when you came to this
world. It is still seen before my eyes how you made me so
busy with your hunger for my affection. O my son, don't you know how
great our love to you ? Deliberately we gave you a beautiful name, my
son. May your future will be beautiful too !
Be happy with what you have, my son ! Whatever given to you from the
side of Allah are the best for you !

Be grateful with all pleasure that has been given to you, and be
patient with all examination which comes from Him. Allah has never had
bad things for us. All praise be to Allah. Truly He is the Most Wise.
Let yourself be useful to others in order not to let yourself be a
futility as a creation. Always be sincere in living your life for He
had created you not in jest.

Have a great and noble goal in life, because it will become a strong
generator of your soul, a tonic that will freshen the cells of your
body, and also the fuel that keep inflaming your spirit !
And, by asking for help to Allah, The Only God , reach your goals in a
respectful way ! Indeed, the man who has no goal in life is the man
who has no future, and the one who reach his goal by using illegal
ways is the one who save despair in his life. Remember always, my son,
that Allah Is The Best to love. When you gained His love, it means
that you have had all things, but if you lost His love, you lost
everything.

Pursue your goal whole-heartedly. Don't let hesitation gnaw on your
mind and soul !

Have a great and noble goal in life, because it will become a strong
generator of your soul, a tonic that will freshen the cells of your
body, and also the fuel that keep inflaming your spirit !
And, by asking for help to Allah, The Only God , reaches your goals in
a respectful way ! Indeed, the man who has no goal in life is the man
who has no future, and the one who reach his goal by using illegal
ways is the one who save despair in his life. Remember always, my son,
that Allah Is The Best to love. When you gained His love, it means
that you have had all things, but if you lost His love, you lost
everything.

Pursue your goal whole-heartedly. Don't let hesitation gnaw on your
mind and soul !

Lastly, let your meeting time with Him, with your Highest Friend, be
the most beautiful moments in your life !

Well, my son, I will end my letter here hoping that you'll be wiser and
happier. May Allah the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful, keep loving
you and protect you.

The one who keep praying for you.

Isabella the Catholic Queen of Spain

Al ‘Allaamah Muhammad Taqee ad Deen al Hilaalee, may Allaah have mercy upon him, comments on the book ‘A Muslim City in Spain’ by Joseph Mckee where he states on P.105:

“Isabella (1451 -1504), the queen of Spain, she assumed power in 1474, she was sly, cunning and obstinate. She exerted all her efforts in torturing the Muslims and Jews and renewing their plight, and made many of errors in the name of religion.

As for personal issues then there is not much to be said, she used to take pride in the fact that she never bathed except twice; the day she was born in the year 1451 and the day she got married in the year 1469. She was also bathed when she died in 1504.”

The reality is that she only bathed once on the night of her wedding, because the bathing that took place during her birth and during her death were not of her own will.”

He comments:

“Just to note, the religion of the Christians was never a religion of cleanliness. The evidence for this is that they used to prohibit the Spanish Muslims from cleaning themselves and bathing, and whoever was caught bathing or was found to have a bath in his home was put to trial and accused of concealing his Islaam. Personal hygiene was an insult that Muslims were insulted with.

As for the state of the Christians today concerning hygiene, then it is from the blessings of living with the Muslims. I would not be exaggerating if I say that hygiene is the greatest thing that the Muslims presented to mankind after monotheism, singling Allaah the Elevated in worship."

For me, writing in my blog was a challenge. As I turned through the pages I had written on, I noticed some were tear streaked and some had smiley faces drawn near the margin. I had an overwhelming feeling of excitement every time I wrote in it. I always felt like I was writing in it for the first time. I never became bored with it.

We can write anything that happened in our Life to our Blog, however life is not a novel you can pick up and read but it is a journal waiting for you to fill it's pages. We can write our goal, I am sure every muslim's goal is Jannah (Paradise), so we try to make amal that bring us to Jannah, following Qur'an and the Sunnah with The Understanding of Salafus Shalih (which includes: Correct Aqeedah or Belief, correct Akhlaq like good to parent, husband, neighbourhood, musafeer, our sisters in Islam as well as being good to your self).

So in between reaching your goal there are many stories to be told, to be shared, to be written about. Living without a goal, is like driving without a destination.

In this life sometimes we face difficulty, how you face this and overcome it may help somebody else. So, put your experience in writing, because one day someone who is facing a similar problem might find your words useful. Being in a bad mood is just a waste of time. When you feel all ways are closed, nothing can be resolved. Well every problem has a solution. As Allaah said in the noble Qur'an "Verily there is Ease after Hardship" Have faith in Allaah and look to fix our problems in Correct way. Seeking advise from our friends or reading from their experience might help us, Biidznillaah. If you are a rose among thorns, then turn the thorns into roses, and you will feel like you made a difference. Making a difference, being useful will ultimately will make you happy for the rest of your life.

Sometimes we get angry, and when we do, we need to remember one Hadith, The Prophet (sallaahu'alahi wasalam) said: “La tagdab wa laka al Jannah” - "Do not be angry and you will have the Jannah." Therefore, we should try our best to stop this angriness (remember jannah is our goal!). Like one sms from a sister of mine "There are two times when you should learn to keep your mouth closed: When you are swimming and when you're angry". So write things that help you stop your anger. Whenever this feeling comes you can remember them and recite them to stop your anger. What you write should be easy to memorize.

Write about Who Are You. You are Muslim "Yes". So don't imitate the Kufar who live around you. According to what I see, many muslims are trying their best to blend in by looking like a Kufar, wearing kufar fashions, way of life and in another things.

I heard a voice tell me, "Look in to the mirror."

I asked why?

It said, "Look, what do you see?"

I said nothing.

The voice asked me again, "What do you see?"

I couldn't see anything.

The voice said, "Can't you see me?"

I said, "No".

I didn't hear that voice again after that.

I began realizing that voice was me and I began realizing that I didn't know myself.

Be yourself! Be a Muslim! Don't Imitate the Kufar. Remember your Goal is Jannah and their goal... is Dust. Do not worry about what the peoples think, but please be worry are your act is correct or not based on Islamic Syari'ah. So, Save the worrying for bigger things in life.

Write your blessing. That will always help you to be thankful to Allaah. He has blessed us with religion Islam. So, we must live our life for Islam and really this is Big Ni'ma, Big Blessing.

Allah has blessed us with our family, our husbands, our house, our friends, our roses in the garden, etc. Alhamdulillaah for all of this. When I count my blessings, I always count my husband twice. :)

Do not take anything as being forever, because forever is only as long as today. Write things that you have lost. Once i remember a sister lost her Cat lol. and it was funny experience how she expressed this. Another sister felt sad because her beloved grandmother passed away. And a red rose in your garden will not always in same color and same condition, in time this rose will be dry and die. Just remember that everything in this life will not remain the same or be here forever. But if we reach our Goal, ie: Jannah, it will stay FOREVER. InshAllaah what you write about losing something or someone important and how you handle your emotion will be a good lesson for people who need this Advice.

Memories are priceless treasures that we can cherish forever in our hearts. Write your Goal! Write your Journey to reach this Goal. And remember everything that happens in our life happens for a reason. Allaah Knows Best!

I wrote that when I was in Zürich, Switzerland

04 August 2006

Pemutus Kenikmatan

Dari Nadhar bin Ismail yang berkata: Saya pernah mendengar Umar bin Dzar [1] berkata:

Kamu sekalian telah cukup mengerti tentang kematian, maka kamu menunggu-nunggu kedatangannya siang dan malam.Mungkin kamu meninggal sebagai seorang yang sangat dicintai oleh keluarganya, dihormati oleh kerabatnya, dan dipatuhi oleh masyarakatnya, dipindahkan keliang yang kering dan batu-batu cadas yang bisu.

Tidak ada seorangpun dari keluarga yang bisa memberikan bantal, kecuali hanya menempatkannya di tengah kerumunan binatang serangga. Adapun bantal pada saat itu berupa amal perbuatannya.Atau mungkin kamu meninggal sebagai orang yang malang dan terasing. Di dunia, ia telah ditimpa banyak kesedihan, usaha yang dilakukan sudah berkepanjangan, badan telah kepayahan, lantas kematian tiba-tiba menjemput sebelum ia meraih keinginannya.Atau mungkin kamu adalah seorang anak yang masih disusui, orang yang sakit, atau orang yang tergadai dan tergila-gila dengan kejahatan.

Mereka semua diundi dengan anak panah kematian.Tidak adakah pelajaran yang bisa dipetik dari perkataan para juru nasihat?!Sungguh, seringkali saya berkata: "Maha Suci Allah Jalla Jalaluhu. Dia telah memberi tempo kepada kamu sehingga seakan-akan menjadikan kamu lalai." Kemudian saya kembali melihat kepemaafan dan kekuasaan-Nya, lantas berkata: "Tidak, tetapi Dia mengakhirkan kita sampai pada batas ajal kita, sampai pada hari di mana mata menjadi terbelalak dan hati menjadi kering.""Artinya : Mereka datang bergegas-gegas memenuhi panggilan dengan mengangkat kepalanya, sedang mata mereka tidak berkedip-kedip dan hati mereka kosong." [Ibrahim : 43]

"Ya Rabbi, Engkau telah memberikan peringatan, maka hujjah-Mu telah tegakatas hamba-hamba-Mu”Kemudian ia membaca:"Artinya : Dan berikanlah peringatan kepada manusia terhadap hari (yang pada waktu itu) datang adzab kepada mereka, maka berkatalah orang-orang yang zhalim: "Ya Tuhan kami, beri tangguhlah kami walaupun dalam waktu yang sedikit." [Ibrahim : 44]

Kemudian ia berkata:"Wahai pelaku kezhaliman! Sesungguhnya kamu sedang berada dalam masa penangguhan yang kamu minta itu, maka manfaatkanlah sebelum akhir masa itu tiba dan bersegeralah sebelum berlalu. Batas akhir penangguhan adalah ketika kamu menemui ajal, saat sang maut datang. Ketika itu tidak berguna lagi penyesalan.

Anak Adam ibarat papan yang dipasang sebagai sasaran dari panah kematian. Siapa yang dipanah dengan anak panah-anak panahnya, tidak akan meleset. Dan bila kematian itu telah menginginkan seseorang, maka tidak akan menimpa yang lain.

Ketahuilah, sesungguhnya kebaikan yang paling besar adalah kebaikan di akhirat yang abadi dan tidak berakhir, yang kekal dan tidak fana, yang terus berlanjut dan tak kenal putus.

Hamba-hamba yang dimuliakan bertempat tinggal di sisi Allah Ta'ala di tengah segala hal yang menyenangkan diri dan menyejukkan pandangan. Mereka saling mengunjungi, bertemu, dan bernostalgia tentang hari-hari mereka hidup di dunia.Tentramlah kehidupan mereka. Mereka telah memperoleh apa yang mereka inginkan dan meraih apa yang mereka cari, karena keinginan mereka adalah berjumpa dengan majikan Yang Maha Pemurah dan Maha Pemberi Anugerah. [2]


"Wasiat Para Salaf", Penulis Syaikh Salim bin 'Ied Al Hilali

Foote Note[1]. Dia adalah Umar bin Dzar biun Abdillah bin Zaraqah Al-Hamdani Al-Murhabi, seorang tabi'it tabi'in yang tsiqah, wafat pada tahun 135 H. Riwayat hidupnya ada dalam "Tahdzibut Tahdzib" (VII:144), "Hilyatul Auliya" (V:108) dan lain-lain[2]. Dikeluarkan oleh Abu Nu'aim dalam 'Al-Hilyah' (V:115-116)

הידעת, בודאי הוא הכי טוב טוב את להלן, ולא את הנצח הסתיים, שנמשך ולא חולף, וכי לא יודע ממשיכה הסוף

Dedicated to My Beloved Wife...

Dear my wife...

I still remember the day when we get married, the day I keep the promise to you at the time I married you, as this is the first and worthiest condition of marriage to be fulfilled by a husband. We enter the marriage with the pure intention of pleasing Allaah Ta'ala, in order to receive His grace and blessings. From this day I feel that I am the most lucky man in this earth. Isn't Prophet Muhammad salallaahu'alahi wasalam said "When a man marries, he has fulfilled half of his religion, so let him fear Allaah regarding the remaining half."

How Happy I am because I have fulfilled half of my religion to marry you. How happy I am because with marriage I follow the sunnah of Prophet Muhammad salallaahu'alahi wasalam. How happy I am because I follow his (salallaahu'alahi wasalam)'s order. "O you young men! Whoever is able to marry should marry, for that will help him to lower his gaze and guard his modesty." (Al-Bukhari)

Dear my wife who is trying to be a better Muslimah...

I hope we both are among who works righteousness. So that Allaah give us a good life, I hope we both can understand each others, forgive each others and advice each others for the sake of Allaah. And I hope we both are among peoples who spread Islam and spread Allaah's messages... I hope our life will be blessed. As Allaah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says "And who works righteousness, male or female, and is a faithful one, so We will give them life a good life, and We will pay them their wages for the most beautiful of what they were working (Qur'an 16:97)"


Dear my wife who wish to be a good wife and mother...

You should know that One of the goals of marriage is to find comfort, repose, and security in the relationship. This goal is more likely to be achieved if we have fear of Allaah Ta'ala and adheres to Islamic morals and manners. I hope that we can reach this goal with our Islamic morals and manners.

InshAllaah, You will be a Mother of our childrens, you are the first teacher for them. Teach them about the True Islam, Show them a good manner, tell them to be kind, honest, loving and caring to parents and other peoples. I pray to Allaah that our childrens are among peoples who fear Allaah, among of the Mu'meen. ameen ya rabb.

Dear my patient wife...

Please forgive me when I am harsh to you. Really I dont mind of that. I wish to always gentle with you, because through gentleness hearts become united in friendship and love, and good becomes widespread. Whereas through its opposite ill feelings and distrust prevails and people forsake one another. As we learn from rasulullaah salallaahu'alahi wasallam: Indeed Allaah is gentle and loves gentleness, and gives due to gentleness that which He does not give to harshness. (Reported by Ibn Majah (no. 3688) and Ibn Hibaan (no. 549) )

Dear my wife,

Each of us have big responsibility, and InshAllaah we can do our best to fullfill our responsibility. I will remind you one hadith about our responsibility. Allaah's Messenger (salallaahu 'alaihi wa'sallam) said: Each of you is a guardian and is responsible for those whom he is in charge of. So the ruler is a guardian and is responsible for his subjects; a man is the guardian of his family and is responsible for those under his care; a woman is a guardian of her husband's home and is responsible for those under her care; a servant is the guardian of his master's wealth and is responsible for that which he is entrusted with; and a man is the guardian of his father's wealth and is responsible fore what is under his care. So each one of you is a guardian and is responsible for what he is entrusted with. Reported by al-Bukharee (Eng. Trans. 9/189/no.252) and Muslim (Eng. Trans. 3/1017/no.4496).

So my dear wife, remind me when I forgot about my responsibilty and I will remind you when you forgot your responsibilty. Hopely we remind each other in a wise manner.

Dear my wife,

Don't be envy with other women condition, their money... their car... their house... their beauty... because all of them are test from Allaah subhanahu wata'ala. We shouldn't feel envy in such things, because envy is a dangerous disease and a harmful evil and therefore keeps away from it. But let me tell you which part that you can feel envy with other women condition. Do you remember one hadith from Ibn Mas'ud radhiallaahu'anhu who said that Rasulullaah salallaahu'alahi wasalam said : There is to be no envy except with regard to two: A man whom Allaah has given wealth which he strives to spend righteously, and a man to whom Allaah has given the Wisdom (i.e. the Qur'aan) and he acts according to it and teaches it to others. (Bukhari)

Dear my beloved wife who always pray for blessing from Allaah Ta'ala,

Please take care your health carefully, take rest when you feel tired after doing your home work. Eat and Drink enaugh. and whenever you have free time at home, use this time to study and to learn Islam. because health and free time are blessing that many peoples lose. As the saying of Rasulullaah salallaahu'alahi wasalam "There are two blessings which many people lose: health and free time." ( Bukhari).

O Allaah the Most Merciful.

I am Your servant, son of Your servant, son of Your maidservant, my forelock is in Your hand, Your command over me is forever executed and Your decree over me is just. I ask You by every name belonging to You which You name Yourself with, or revealed in Your Book, or You taught to any of Your creation, or You have preserved in the knowledge of the unseen with You, that You make the Qur’aan the life of my heart and the light of my breast, and a departure for my sorrow and a release for my anxiety.’

O Allaah The King Who has no Partner!You are the Witness to this relationship, I had fallen in love with my life partner, make this love toward her increase my strength to Love You. But, I also pray that my love towards her should not exceed the love towards You. Make this Love a meaningful one. Protect my heart so that I never forget You. Make her love for me not exceed the love she has for You and make us martyr in Your cause. Make her love and desire towards me, never forget Your paradise. If my love towards her ever makes me forget You, remind me and guide me, dont make me one of the losers.

With Love,

Your Husband
Ibrahimi